It's Game Time (and not the electronic kind!)

The stereotype is (and is mostly true) that kids on the Spectrum LOVE video games. Many would rather stare at a computer screen or video game screen than anything else in the world. While this does keep them content and occupied, it is not in the child's best interest to let him be self-absorbed like this for hours.

Video games, television, and other electronics let your child disengage from the world. He doesn't have to think about or consider others or interact with reality. Kids with spectrum disorders need social skills practice at every available opportunity. So, let's look at gaming a bit differently...

Board games. I know you are thinking, "Yeah right, like that is going to happen.", but it can. It may be a struggle at first, but if you make it fun and appealing, it will be awesome!

Start by researching to find a board game similar to one of your child's favorite games. For example, Angry Birds has board games based off the App games. There are other games featuring Star Wars characters, UNO featuring Diary of A Wimpy Kid, etc.

Then, take your child with you to the store to pick out the game. This way even though it is your idea, he has ownership of the decision.

Next plan a family time party. Have a few healthy snack favorites. Have a friend over. Whatever you think will help. Make it anxiety free!

Playing board games is an excellent way to encourage social skills among family and peers. Everyone has to sit together and pay attention to the same thing. This is rare in our smart phone world. It will help your family have fun together and bond in new ways, while helping your child on the Spectrum with social skills.

 During the game you can be aware of what is going on and use teachable moments to encourage proper social interaction and to work on theory of mind skills.

After your child realizes the games are fun, it doesn't have to be a big production every time. You will have him hooked. Then you can encourage these games for school rewards and play dates with friends instead of computer or video games time.